Traditionally, couples begin merging their finances along with their lives upon the start of their marriage, for instance, taking shared responsibility for bearing utility costs, day-to-day bills, and developing joint savings goals. This can also include combining their salaries or other recurring earnings, like cash gifts from the wedding and tax refunds, into a single cooperative bank account known as the ultimate union of their marital finances.
There is no unique approach with one size fits all
Combining bank accounts may not be an ideal system that will work best for all couples. Every relationship is different, so are married couples’ financial matters. Holding either separate accounts, joint bank accounts, or a consolidation of the two concepts is primarily personal and emotional and results in serious discussions.
How a couple manages their finances depends on their attitudes towards money. They might find some areas where sharing the responsibility is sensible, while others make compromises. Understanding an individual approach and attitude towards money is the first step to figuring out where you agree – and disagree – so that you can locate significant issues before they occur.
Be clear about your financial goals
Without having clarity of your destination, it is tough to map out your journey. Consequently, you must have clear financial goals to develop an acceptable plan to accomplish them. A prudent couple typically begins their lives by paying off debt one or both has acquired, saving money for a home, car, and children’s education, developing an emergency fund and saving funds for retirement. As time passes, the couple is likely to modify old goals or create a few new ones such as relocation to a new home, occasional tourism, or buying an oversized ticket item for their enjoyment.
A low credit score can impact joint finances
Being married to someone with lousy creditworthiness will not affect you. However, as soon as you take out a home mortgage together or open a joint account, mortgages could gravely harm your credit score. For instance, ‘co-scoring’ occurs when two people are jointly applying for credit. Thus, it is suitable for both of you to assess your credit rating before combining your finances.
Trust and fairness
Opening a joint bank account affirms that you will both be responsible for any loans or overdrafts. Thus, individuals of a couple must trust each other. Also, you must be clear on what is a fair contribution and be resilient to it.
Be clear on independence while setting boundaries
Start with being clear about your expectations and spending limits. Thus, anything over that amount will eventually have to be purchased only upon a joint decision.
Ensure your equal partnership
Avoid circumstances where only one person among you understands your finances. Irrespective of how disinterested any of you could be in managing your finances, allowing only one partner to control all the joint finances is terrible for both of you.
Keeping your money separate
Share everything in a joint account
In a joint account, you combine your earnings and income into a joint account for all shared expenses from small, daily items to paying the mortgage, rent, and other utilities and bills. This makes budgeting a lot easier, giving both of your equal control over your finances and awareness of the other person’s spending. Sharing everything works well for a couple when:
- Both of you have similar spending patterns and behaviors.
- Have an agreed spending threshold between each of you.
Sharing and dividing responsibilities
Sharing financial responsibilities is a good step, to begin with, a compromise. Consequently, open a joint account to pay off your shared bills while maintaining your accounts separately to pay for individual wants. It ensures excellent budgeting while keeping some privacy and independence. Consider the following things when deciding on shared responsibilities:
- Sort out the bills to be paid from the joint account.
- Consider your spending habits and agree on mutually acceptable to avoid arguments and disagreements over money matters.
- Settle on a specific contribution to be paid into the joint account every month, whether it is per your income size or 50/50